Counseling for individuals, couples, adults and teens in Crystal Lake, Algonquin and McHenry County,
Infidelity, affairs, sexual addiction, betrayal… these are the things that have destroyed relationships and families since the beginning of time (says Sheri Bland, but I don’t think that could be argued). Below are some resources to help guide you/others who have experienced this devastation. The book “Deceived” directly addresses with infidelity, sexual addiction, pornography, sexual […]
The book “Deceived” deals straight on with infidelity, sexual addiction, pornography, sexual betrayal and the secrets that can kill a relationship. Claudia Black, a clinical social worker, is well known for her work with addictions and alcoholism. This has been a good resource for couples/partners who are dealing with this relational issue. Often times, it […]
When it comes to couples counseling, one key ingredient is understanding the inherent differences between men and women, and how this effects communication. This is a short great video clip that says it all. It is called “It’s not about the Nail”. Enjoy! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg And best wishes for a healthy […]
P.I.S.D.=Post Infidelity Stress Disorder. In doing marriage counseling, I see many couples who have gone through many kinds of infidelity (emotional, online, work, financial, sexual). Psychologist Dennis Ortman in “Transcending Infidelity” likens the psychological aftermath of sexual betrayal to post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) in its origin and symptoms, including anxiety, irritability, rage, emotional numbing, and […]
This is for the women who don’t feel understood their husbands/partners and for their men who think they are too emotional! Cognitive vs. affective empathy is inborn. Below is a link to an interesting blog on difference between affective empathy ( I feel your pain and want to help you) and cognitive empathy ( I can […]
